My FIL died this morning. He was elderly and though it was slightly sudden, it didn't come as too big a shock as he had failing health.
At 35, this is my first experience of death (except the sudden unlawful killing of a school friend aged 15; never went to her funeral due to my 'fears' and grandfather's death was 18 years after I last saw him and doing my final exams and told not to go).
The funeral is arranged as FIL organised that prior and DH is ringing the solicitor as his mum is also elderly and not really in a fit state to deal with the practicalities.
The thing is, I have never even been to a funeral before. It will be a cremation.
Can anyone shed any light on what to expect/time-frame/what happens afterwards and also, what exactly is a 'wake' and do we need/should we have one and where?
As you may have gathered, I am completely ignorant of these things.
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junkfoodaddict · 13/04/2014 16:43
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