I've read a few messages on here where people have lost a parent. I lost my Dad almost 4 years ago and just wanted to say that, believe it or not, it does get easier.
We found out Dad had cancer in August 2002, just after DD's 3rd birthday. He was hospitalised and did not come out - they had found it far too late and within 3 weeks he had died, after a brave, intense battle. It was an awful awful time, the worst time of my life. My (then) DP and I rushed to arrange our wedding and organised it in 3 days, but he sadly died on the morning of the wedding so it was cancelled.
At first I thought I would never get over it, I was in pieces and couldn't bear to think I'd never speak to him or see him again. DD and DP were devastated too, as was my Mum and sister and I felt like I had to hold it together for everone. I would sob hysterically into my pillow when nobody was around and truly felt like my heart was broken.
It took a long time, but I gradually realised that some days I could think about him and not cry.
Yes, it was hard for a long time and even now I get days when I feel the loss really badly especially at times like now when its coming up to the anniversary of his death.
I just wanted to give support to anyone who loses a parent. I never thought I would feel better, but I do and wanted to convey that.
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MamaG · 19/08/2006 20:57
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