Found out last night that my friend had her scan yesterday and they couldn't find a heartbeat. Her due date was a week before mine.
I haven't spoken to her yet, I found out from another friend last night, both of us sobbing down the phone. Friend from last night also lost a baby in a similar way 2 years ago and this has brought it all back to her too, very distressing.
I am thinking of sending a card today, just to let her know I am thinking of her etc, and to tell her to call me when she is ready. Or should I phone her? The friend from last night reckons a card may be better first as she has spent most of the day informing relatives (or her dh has) and she feels 'phoned out' if you know what I mean.
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No heartbeat on friend's scan, due date a week before mine, what do I say?
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oliveoil · 11/03/2004 09:54
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