Firstly I am so sorry to intrude and ask this question of you. I don't have anyone I can talk to about this in RL.
Background. I am a surviving sibling. It is more than 30yrs ago now since my sibling died suddenly when I was a v young child and basically, no one handled it in the family or spoke of it really. Consequently I cannot talk about it easily in RL (amongst other issues)
My mum clearly was massively distressed by this but it wasn't mentioned and she's lived with this alone all this time.
An anniversary has recently passed. And I'm feeling overcome with urge to send some flowers to her or something to mark occasion.
It would be massively out of the blue.
Please can anyone who is in her shoes tell me what you think ? Im terrified of doing the wrong thing and doing anything to cause upset.
I have been overwhelmed by urge to do this after reading a book about someone experiencing a grief and it's made me feel a bit odd.
Tia.
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Sheissmallandveryspidery · 30/10/2013 20:06
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