Please join us here if you have lost a parent and need support (3)

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mummylin Wed 11-Sep-13 12:47:05

Well here we are again on a brand new thread,hopefully we can all move on a bit to a more accepting phase in our lives.

sad have you got someone there with you bad voc they can be especially painful. hope you can get some rest

mummylin Wed 20-Nov-13 02:12:09

Hope you are ok badvoc do you have this often ? I too am still up. Think I have chest infection.

Sorry to hear that mummy linn ds is poorly with earache and has been crying on and off since about 9 pm I am on the living room floor attempting to sleep when he finally does

Badvoc Wed 20-Nov-13 07:40:08

We 3 have had a bad night haven't we!?
Hope you are ok Lin, and your ds is ok SM
I am in agony.
Feel dreadful. Nearly passed out a few minutes ago in one of my - many - trips to the loo since 9pm last night!
Ds1 is going to have to go tsp my pils today which isn't ideal really. Dh going into work late @ 8am.
I know I have a large gallstone - had an attack like this about 3 years ago.
Feel awful sad

ssd Wed 20-Nov-13 08:15:11

badvoc, I'm sorry you are feeling rotten, thats a really sore thing you have, I know sad. Can the gp give you anything? I've heard its worse than childbirth, so can imagine the pain you are in. You poor soul, you've really been through the ringer. I agree with mummylin, try to get some time and peace for yourself, although I know with little ones thats not easy.

supermario, I'm sorry you are having a rough time too, I really think it might help your ds if he could speak to someone about your mum dying and what the loss means to him, let him talk it out a bit instead of acting it out. I think there are specialists in this kind of thing, maybe try cruse or winstons wish, I think both of you would benefit from this a bit. Of course he's just young, he wont understand his feelings but maybe being able to talk to an adult other than you who understands him would help him a little bit. The wee darling, wish I could give him a hug...and you of course!

mummylin, your wise words here help us all, thank you and hope that chest infection goes away soon.

to everyone else here, sorry i havent named everyone but please know you are welcome to join here for the new posters and for the old buddies, hugs and a cuppa from me xxx

Today should be mum's birthday so I'm going to spoil dd and myself to a little treat and then take flowers to her grave. Oh and have cake, definitely cake.

ssd Wed 20-Nov-13 09:02:42

flowers for you, your dd and your darling mum drama xxx

thanks for your dmums birthday I like how you say you will treat dd I did that with ds because mum would of liked that and cake is good too . ds is up now after finally falling asleep at 5 am he is off school today to try and get some rest but seems to not be hurting so much anymore. He is shattered though

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Thought I would start the new one before we got right to the end.

Badvoc Wed 20-Nov-13 14:36:27

Gp been and sending me into hospital for pain relief and if fluids.
sad

Oh no badvocsad that is shit but you will be in the best place to get well. Take care of yourself you will be back home soon

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