Dear Mum
I am very sorry now, for the things I never said or did, and I wish I had been a better and more appreciative daughter. So I thought I would list out the ways in which I appreciate you, and was too ungracious to express at the time.
- I appreciate the fact that you took care of the big things - stuff like love and books and people - not little things like stuff and materialism.
- I appreciate the fact that you allowed me my independence and catered for my willful streak and never forbade, but always guided.
- I appreciate your incredible bravery. The fact that you travelled the world and as a white girl married someone black when that was unthinkable. You and your kind made this the tolerant and pluralistic society that it is now.
- I appreciate your erudition.
- I appreciate your love and kindness to my children. Which was endless and boundless and they love you so very much.
There are very many more things. But as I cuddle my sobbing teenage daughter to sleep, I think of you. We are your legacy. We'll try to do you proud.
Thank you for everything. Safe journey.