should have been mum and dads 40th anniversary today

(4 Posts)
StinkyElfCheese Tue 09-Apr-13 09:30:03

except she died last may... and dad has moved a stanger into his home who sits in my mums chair sleeps in her bed, uses her carefully chosen mugs, and pots and pans... and just isnt my mum.

Dad has stopped seeing all his old friends (especialluy thoose who were mums friends and who are woman as xxxx is jellous of them she has told him this)

i havent seen dad without xxxx in months, and am not sure i every will again dsis barley talks to him and i feal like i dont have a 'family' anymore. this time last year we had a great family meal with lots of laughter and fun this year no one is talking to each other and dad is totally besotted with xxxxx at the expense of everything else.

Its all so sad sad

WishIdbeenatigermum Tue 09-Apr-13 09:32:31

((stinky))
You'd be a saint if you could put your feelings to one side just be happy for him sad
Sorry for your loss.

mummylin Tue 09-Apr-13 09:32:37

We have a thread for people who are grieving for a parent,come and join us there will try and link for you.

mummylin Tue 09-Apr-13 10:14:55

For some reason I can't get the link to work but the thread is in bereavement titled " support thread for anyone grieving for a parent " you will be very welcome

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