i know this is the place for bereavement, and i may be totally wrong putting this here, but i didn't know where to put it. 16 yrs ago today my husbands mum took her own life. every day he remembers, it still hurts. she never saw him become and adult, never met me, never saw him become a dad. she will never know his of achivements, or of the pain and destruction her death left behind. nothing i can say makes it any easier for him. i wish she was still here, he deserves his mum. he doesn't deserve the hurt. i just wish there was something i could do or say, but there isn't. so that's why i'm here. just to say that he remembers you. the kids know about you. you are still part of our family. and thankyou. without you, i wouldnt have him.