Hi
My dad has died after a second stroke, he is in SA and me in UK.
In dec when he had the first one I went over there to see him, he saw kids etc.
He died Monday, around this time. In hospital.
I feel normal. A bit confused, But I want to just get on with things, and live life like normal.
I feel like I should be devastated. But I am just normal. I am laughing with friends sometimes like normal.
I googled "am i in denial?" but it says denial means not accepting the death, feeling shock, life makes no sense, we dont know how to go on etc, I dont feel like this.
Is there something wrong with me?
Am I cold and unfeeling?
Has it just not sunk in yet? Is it because of distance and I am not used to having him around anyway?
Please someone tell me they know how I feel.
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Am I In denial? - My Dads died
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nailak · 27/02/2013 02:47
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