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Four years today.

I don't know whether it's flown or not.

My lovely, kind, beautiful, funny boy. Who will always be 20 years old.

I don't think the date will ever pass easily. It's like you are transported right back. Horrible.

Always loved.

I'm sorry, this isn't a post a parent should ever have to write and i can't imagine how hard it must be for you.
Sending you best wishes and hugs.
Rest in peace Oliver. xxxx

Thinking of you today, you have been so kind to me and have helped me so much.
Many thoughts and parayers with you and your family.
RIP Oliver xx

Everlong, I can only imagine how hard it is for you and yes no parent should ever be where you are. More thoughts are with you and much love to you and your family xxxx

RIP Oliver x

I'm sorry for your loss everlong. Sending you a hug. Xx

Hope you can remember your son with some peace.

Thinking of your lovely Oliver today everlong , four years ! No time at all yet a lifetime lived without him .

Sending lots of love to you and your family today Everlong. All of these days are so painful. xxx

Thinking of you and Oliver today and always x

Oh heavens Everlong it can't possibly be four years can it? Realises it must be as DS1 should have been 5 this year. how can time go so fast and so slow all at the same time. Thinking of you and your lovely boy today.

Always loved, never forgotten.

XXX

Gosh Everlong. Is it four years?

I wish I could say something that would make you feel better but I am sure nothing will.

Thinking of you today.

X

Oh Everlong - many hugs.
xxx

I hope the happy memories of Oliver will be uppermost in your mind today. Thinking of you x

How you doing everlong ?

It's tw in disguise by the way x

Thank you all for your hugs. I need them.

tw you know how it is, you put that brave face on for so long and pretend you're ok but sometimes ( like today ) it's just too hard. I hate it. I want him back.. I'll be ok it's just because it's today. It's only a date I know that, like any other without him, irrational really.

So sorry for your loss.

Rational.doesn't come into everlong , I always feel a bit like the pagans felt about Halloween around harrys anniversary , the two halves of my world collide and I can't nod and smile anymore . It will pass but it is bloody tiring while it lasts .

Bit hugs and a large gin to you x

Oh Everlong (((hugs))). Thinking of you & your lovely boy - lots of love xxxxx xxxxx

Thank you tami xxxx

Thinking of you x

Is my dds birthday today. Hard day. Couldn't wait to get home from work to cry.

I know I can't say anything, but thoughts with you

Hugs for you too giraffes xx

So sorry .

It's not just a date, though, is it? And 4 years is nothing, really. He's still your boy.

Giraffes - I'm sorry. So many hard days.

Thinking of you and Oliver. I am so sorry.

Thinking of you too, giraffes.