I had an mc in July at six weeks and my baby should have been due in two weeks time. My friend who I see every week had a new baby last week and I saw him yesterday for the first time. I feel very depressed and upset that it isn't me. I am now fourteen weeks pregnant but everyone included my dh seems to think that being pg means I should no longer miss the other baby but I do and feel cheated out of six months of having a second baby. At the same time I feel guilty towards this baby because if that one had survived then this one wouldn't exist.
Also due to hear heartbeat for first time on the day this baby would have been due. I had a terrible dream last night that this baby was dead as well.
Anyway thanks for listening just wanted to talk to someone who wont tell me what I feel is wrong.
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benjaminsmum · 09/03/2006 14:22
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