MY son died

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Don't know how to say it, but need to put it down. My beautiful son was found dead last night. I don't know what to do. He is 22 but still my baby, how do you begin to process something like this?

GRW Wed 04-Jul-12 07:12:15

I am so sorry. You must be in shock just now. I hope you have good support from those around you, to help you through the next few hours and days.

GrapesAnatomy Wed 04-Jul-12 07:16:03

Tell us about him mumto.
I am so very sorry for your loss and yes one day at a time is the only way forward. Take care of yourself.

FarelyKnuts Wed 04-Jul-12 07:18:10

Mum2- I am so terribly sorry for the loss of your boy. What a horrible shock for you. x

happystory Wed 04-Jul-12 07:18:20

Oh love how tragic. Of course he is still your baby. Sincere sympathies.

Doyouthinktheysaurus Wed 04-Jul-12 07:18:32

I'm am sorry Mum2 for the loss of your son, life can be so cruelsad

Saritabean Wed 04-Jul-12 07:19:44

You are in my thoughts mum2
X

SoupDragon Wed 04-Jul-12 07:20:29

Oh I am so sorry to hear of your loss.

So sorry for your loss. Hope like others say that you have someone with you.

LST Wed 04-Jul-12 07:22:31

I'm so terribly sorry mumof. Your in my thoughts and prayers xxx

RobinSparkles Wed 04-Jul-12 07:22:50

I'm so sorry. I don't know how you begin to process something like this - as others have said, just take one day at a time.

I'm so sorry for your loss. I don't know what to say, it's beyond awful. Lots of love to you and your family.

Halfling Wed 04-Jul-12 07:23:21

I am so sorry for your loss mum2.

CoffeeGoneColdAgain Wed 04-Jul-12 07:24:44

So so sorry Mumof, how very sad. sad

I'm so sorry to read this.
I've no idea how to deal with it, but am here to hold your MN hand & listen if you need to talk. xx

marriedinwhite Wed 04-Jul-12 07:27:58

So sorry. Hope you aren't alone.

Cassettetapeandpencil Wed 04-Jul-12 07:28:27

I'm so sorry for your loss. You're in my thoughts and prayers x

Jinsei Wed 04-Jul-12 07:29:42

I am so very sorry. I hope you have lots of RL support around you.

OddBoots Wed 04-Jul-12 07:29:50

I'm so sorry. I have no idea how you process something like that but I hope you are able to do it with support. xx

bbface Wed 04-Jul-12 07:29:57

My darling, I am so sorry. I have prayed for you x

Oh mumto I am so very sorry. There really are no longer words to help in this situation, but please know, there's always someone around on here to listen. Xx

mumof, my deepest sympathies for your appalling loss sad.
It always seems to unfair when the young die.

Much love and strength sent your and your families way.
Be kind to yourself, keep breathing and putting one foot in front of the other.

ilovesprouts Wed 04-Jul-12 07:34:27

so very sorry i have a son he same age i can imagine how you are feeling

SerialKipper Wed 04-Jul-12 07:37:33

Oh mumto. So very sorry.

I'm so very sorry. The shock must be overwhelming. While you process this trauma, you must take care of your physical body - eat, sleep, cry when you need to. Nothing you feel right now is wrong. Whatever gets you through the day.

Take comfort in your family and friends who've lost a loved one too.

Be kind to yourself. X

mancbird Wed 04-Jul-12 07:40:13

So very sorry to read this sad sending much love and strength to you and your family xxx

SecretNutellaFix Wed 04-Jul-12 07:41:54

I'm so sorry.x

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