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This week is baby loss awareness week-for our precious angels.x.x

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wannabump2006 · 10/10/2005 12:32

Hi everyone,some of you may remember me as shelly24,i have now changed my name to the above.
I wanted to let you all know that this week is 'baby loss awareness week'...a chance for those who have lost their precious babies either through miscarriage,stillbirth or any other way,to remember,to shed a tear,and if you like,to leave alittle message to your much missed baby below.
Lets remember the babies who are watching down on us,and send them all the love we have.x.x.x
shelly.x

Rhys Huntley:born an angel on 14.05.05
(rhys was stillborn at 33weeks old)
:Mummy and daddy miss you so much and wish you were with us everyday,our precious and perfect little boy,forever in our hearts...now dancing amounst the clouds.x.x.xwe will always remember.x

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Fangache · 10/10/2005 12:34

Oh shelley - Shedding tears at work for your wee angel.

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gravity · 10/10/2005 12:36

SHELLEY, MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU. HUGS! SPECIAL THOUGHTS FOR YOUR LITTLE ANGEL. KEEP STRONG SHELLEY X

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Coathanger · 10/10/2005 14:39

Hi wannabump! I just saw your post on the TTC thread. I had a miscarriage at 7 weeks in August this year, and although it was an early miscarriage, to me that was my baby. I am lucky to already have 3 beautiful boys but this baby was wanted so much and is a huge loss to me.

Anyway, during one of the long nights after it happened, whilst I couldn't sleep I wrote these words, which came to me out of the blue. I wrote them down and that particular night I slept like a log after I had jotted it down.

Anyway this is what I wrote:

I didn't get to see your face,
But I knew you.
I didn't get to touch your skin,
But I felt you.
I didn't get to hear you cry,
But I heard you.
I didn't get to hold you,
But I cradled you.
I didn't get to kiss you,
But I loved you.
Your existence was so short,
But I loved you every second.
I will always love you.
I will never forget you.
My Baby.


Wannabump, my heart goes out to you too, hun. And I truely hope you get that bump! Good muck to you sweetie, take care.
CH
XXXX

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gravity · 10/10/2005 14:41

oh coathanger - that gave me goosebumps.
that was beautiful

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mygirllolipop · 10/10/2005 14:48

Message withdrawn

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Diddle · 10/10/2005 14:51

My two beloved babies, i like to think you're watching over me, keeping me safe, and enjoyign growing up somewhere with one another.
Baby diddle 1 - miscarried at 7 wks on 31st january 2005
baby diddle 2 - miscarried 3rd April 2005 9wks.

I will never ever forget you, you will always be in my heart, forever

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WigWamBam · 10/10/2005 14:57

I lost my first baby to miscarriage a long time ago, she would have been 20 sometime this month, and it still hurts that I never met her. I wasn't even allowed to see her before she was taken away, I don't even know for certain that she was a girl, but I called her Elizabeth Mary, so I at least have a name even if I have nothing else.

I still shed tears for her now and will never forget her.

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Fangache · 10/10/2005 15:02

My baby would have been 11 now. Miscarried when I was 16 at around 5-7 wks.

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edodgy · 10/10/2005 15:15

My baby would be 1 on 24th October I mc at 8 weeks on 13th March 2004.

I know you're being looked after by nana and grandad. Thankyou for sending us your soon to be born little brother. I will never forget you. xxxxx

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mancmum · 10/10/2005 15:45

my darling DDs twin -- lost at 11weeks 6 days ... I think about you every day... I look at your sister and think she is just so special, she must have something of you as well...

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cori · 10/10/2005 16:12

My 2nd DS, Arden, lost at 17 weeks. Would have been born last week.

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HellKat · 10/10/2005 16:22

My 4 gorgeous angels.
Mummy and daddy love you very much, and will be reunited one day.
Although they were brief pregnancies, our little babies were loved, adore and wanted.

Hugs to all of us I think.
{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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wendy11 · 10/10/2005 17:16

Adam George - Born an angel on 24th September 2004
Baby George - Miscarried at 10 weeks on 1st August 2005

Our precious babies. So longed for but only briefly lent. Returned to God with everlasting love from Mummy and Daddy.xoxo

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spidermama · 10/10/2005 17:26

Ahhh Shelley. I'm so sorry for your loss. I love the new name and may it prove to be a wish come true.

I'm sending love remembrance to my two who never made it here.
I'll always love them and never forget them. They're part of the family in their own way.

Love and positive vibes to all the mums, dads, sisters and brothers who've lost.
xx

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KateF · 10/10/2005 17:44

My first baby Ashley lost at 12 weeks 15th Oct 1998. Sleep well little one, you are never forgotten.

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Whizzz · 10/10/2005 18:56

Website link here

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LRKIDS · 10/10/2005 22:37

For Elisha, born at 16.5 weeks on 13/4/05 lots of hugs and kisses from Mummy. I'm sure Daddy loves and misses you too even if he doesn't talk about you. xxxxxxxx

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RTKMonherBROOMSTICK · 10/10/2005 22:43

To DT1 we all miss you so much each day.

We wish you were here to play with DT2 and go to school together

But we know that you are watching over him

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mumswish · 11/10/2005 13:22

To my dear baby that I lost at around 10 wks this time last year.

I miss you dearly and wish I could hold you everyday.

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Amyjade · 12/10/2005 21:13

A poem for everyone who has lost a child through miscarriage, still birth, cot death or death in early chilhood.

In memory of Freya 3/09/03 - 16/04/05
In our hearts forever babygirl xxxx

Little Snowdrop

The world may never notice
If a Snowdrop doesn't bloom,
Or even pause to wonder
If the petals fall too soon.
But every life that ever forms,
Or ever comes to be,
Touches the world in some small way
For all eternity.


The little one we long for
Was swiftly here and gone.
But the love that was then planted
Is a light that still shines on.
And though our arms are empty,
Our hearts know what to do.
Every beating of our hearts
Says that we love you.

  • Author Unknown -
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FrumpyGrumpy · 12/10/2005 21:18

x to you all.

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Diddle · 14/10/2005 07:41

amy jade - that was beautiful, obviously i am sobbing my heart out now, but it was lovely

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womba1 · 14/10/2005 07:56

Love to all you mums,dads and your angels x

James Joseph born on 7th February 1991
(stillborn at 30 weeks)
Mummy misses you so so much.
Always in my thoughts and forever in my heart...
my perfect baby boy who was born asleep and at peace xxxx

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ei23monster · 15/10/2005 22:59

my little one taken three years ago on the 16/10 at 15 weeks pg is always in my thoughts and although i didnt get a chance to find out i felt that it was a girl and named her eleanor rose. im pg again now and have reached 30 weeks. i feel so lucky to have this one growing healthy and well and am so grateful for this. i will never forget my little angel xxx i love you babexx

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jules27 · 19/10/2005 17:24

I lost my baby at 7weeks and i am the only one to remember it. My partner didnt want me to have the baby and so i remember alone . MY child would have been two next month and the rose in my garden i planted for him(i'd like to think he was a son) blooms still. A beautiful flower sit in my garden for your mummy to watch over you . I love you precious baby..xxx

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