Please excuse me for the length of this posting, have read other threads but am a virgin to posting myself. Will try and get more succinct!
Am at my wits end though...am probably getting a couple of hours sleep a night with a 9 week old who suffers horribly from trapped wind (I think) and will not sleep for more than an hour at a time.
Love that all books say "sleep when the baby sleeps" during the day, which is all very well, but whilst I'm sleeping who would then act as the human climbing frame/punch bag for my toddler?
Which leads me on to what I'd like your help with - about 3 weeks ago my generally fairly well behaved lovely little boy was seemingly replaced with a tantrum throwing monster. Thankfully he's not (yet) being aggressive towards anyone else, but he's started hitting and kicking me, and I just feel like I'm telling him off all the time. Which can't be much fun for him, and certainly isn't for me.
I know it's a phase they go through, it won't last forever, he's testing his boundaries so I just need to keep giving them to him, and the fact he's got a new baby brother probably isn't helping. But when I'm so tired it just feels so difficult to cope with! And as it's just me he vents his rage at, difficult not to take personally, or to demonise him. Every other day I seem to be reduced to tears and life just feels like a battle at the mo. I know he's only 2 years old, for goodness sake how can I be got the better of by a 2 year old?!
I'm not sure what I'm asking really - maybe just for tips to get through the day without feeling like the world's most pathetic mum or feeling like you just want to lock yourself in a darkened room, scream very loudly and then fall asleep for a bit...
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How to cope with no sleep, newborn and toddler without going mad
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WashIrving22 · 18/02/2010 15:43
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