sorry long. but please help
my 2 year old dd is very independent and outgoing confident child, outside the home and at nursery. by the way she goes full time as I am a working mum.
she has never been good at entertaning herself since she was very small. she does play by herself for a very short time but then soon after she wants my attention and playing with me constantly. she follows me constantly and most times (I am not saying never)she is not so interested in toys/ drawings or other activites i set up for her unless i am involved. the only time that she lives me alone is when she watches tv.
now she has been at home with chicken pox and i have notice how bad it can be. She would rather sit on my lap bored in front of the pc rather than going next room /sitting next tome playing. I spend a lot of time playing with her and involving her in what i do, but sometimes i would like her to learn to play by herself and have some time for myself at home (be here or read the paper)without having to sit her in ront of Cbeebies. i have tried to take her to the toy/activity and leave but she soon comes back and if i say mummy busy reading/typing/etc, you play with xxxxx/toys/yoour room, she gets really upset and i get wound up. well i have to say maybe it is worse in these days since she has been at home with me with chicken pox for 10 days up to now, and saw noone else during this time, she has become very clingy and started waking up during the night to look for comfort/to be near me. she also started to sit/trying to sit on my lap all the time
i know i am prob contributed to this. but what can i do to imporve the situation? Am i being too harsh/selfish by expecting her to play by herslef for longer periods? I wish she did also because it have read how it is good in term of development and i am worried that this home clingingness is doing her no good. Or am I being too 'nice'? or could things be worse because of the chicken pox situation? please advise needed, on what i should expect from her and strategies. what am i doing wrong?
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my 2y dd is not very good at entertaning herself - please help
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BarbaraX · 11/06/2005 15:25
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