Ok here goes.
I have a ds who was 4 last december. Hes a very boysterous child and Im begining to loose all patience with him and all my confidence as a mother.
Heres a list of the things he does,
- hits/pushes/trips up/knocks over etc
- shouts/screams
- swears (juct says bloody hell but i hate it and its just started.)
- throws things at me/brother
- sticks tounge out/back-chats and is just plain cheeky
- ignores me when i tell him off/ask him to do something
- deleberatly does opposite of what i ask if he doesnt ignore me
- takes things he's told not to (sweets/cakes/toys etc)
- spoils other peoples games all the time, jups on them, takes toys etc.
- runs arround/jumps/climbs etc when he knows he shouldnt
Please dont tell me its attention seeking as he gets loads of attention and we had all weekend together just the 2 of us and he was such a handfull.
Ive tried a change of diet, different punishments all sorts of things but it doesnt resolve the situation. I feel so alone like its me against the world and her granny. Its so hard and Im about loose my sanity. Its becoming a case of him or me and I cant take it anymore.
I hate taking him to school because 5 mins in school yard seems like a nightmare, all other mothers think my boy is the naughty one ant I cant take anymore. If anything happens the mothers look at him straight away as if he's the only naughty child in the world.
Sorry its a long one but thanks if you are still there!