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19 month old ds is biting, how do you deal with this?

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19 month old ds has recently started biting, but only when he's over excited hmm. Today, I was bitten trying to catch the little runaway. What apart from obviously saying No, can I do. He thinks, I am jokinghmm, has anyone got a magic remedy!
I think it just sort of gradually reduced, I can't really remember. Luckily she only bit me and her big sister so that was easy enough to deal with. She just used to hit other children!!!(Doesn't do that no either)

As long as you firmly say no to them and apologise to the other child and parent the vast majority of other parents are fine. I used to stick really close to her at toddler group/soft play areas so as soon as her little mouth opened towards another childs limb I grabbed her so she couldn't bite them.

She did get really badly bitten by another toddler at a soft play area (never found out who), her whole cheek was bruised and swollen for 10 days and she had 8 perfect teeth marks in blood on her face. I think she may have stopped biting then!!!

Despite what this post sounds like dd2 is actually a lovely little girl who is more likely to hurt someone by hugging them too hard.
I think it just sort of gradually reduced, I can't really remember. Luckily she only bit me and her big sister so that was easy enough to deal with. She just used to hit other children!!!(Doesn't do that no either)

As long as you firmly say no to them and apologise to the other child and parent the vast majority of other parents are fine. I used to stick really close to her at toddler group/soft play areas so as soon as her little mouth opened towards another childs limb I grabbed her so she couldn't bite them.

She did get really badly bitten by another toddler at a soft play area (never found out who), her whole cheek was bruised and swollen for 10 days and she had 8 perfect teeth marks in blood on her face. I think she may have stopped biting then!!!

Despite what this post sounds like dd2 is actually a lovely little girl who is more likely to hurt someone by hugging them too hard.
I don't know what I'm going to do if he does it to another child, which is the main reason I want it to stop as soon as possible. How do you handle that, and another parent, because I know I'd be mortified if he was bitten by another childshock. It's bound to happen one day I guess, but in the meantimeI want a way of preventing him doing it, because he bloody hurts.
Add message | Report | Contact poster By Thu 02-Jul-09 19:24:49
Out of interest Elk - did anything coincide with your dd's biting cessation? (Just looking for anything extra that I could try!)
My dd2 used to bite. I just did what you are doing, I always stared her straight in the eyes whilst saying No biting and either put down/walk off.
She is now 3.6 and doesn't bite anyone apart from herself. She has just started biting her arm when I tell her off! I think she is doing it to try to make me feel guilty.
I'd never bite him back, however tempting it is sometimes hmm. It's the fact he thinks he's funny which is getting to me, and just in the course of today he's attempted to bite me several times. I'm half tempted to make his days that boring he's got no opportunity to get excited blush
Add message | Report | Contact poster By Thu 02-Jul-09 12:44:10
My sweet, lovely dd1 is a biter. She is an angelic child 98% of the time, and a demonic biter (a la hannibal lector) for the remainder.

dd is now 2 1/2 and will still bite if she gets in a argument over a toy with another child especially if she is tired (which is often as she has unfortunately dropped her daytime nap sad.

Remember that unfortunatly it is common (quarter of toddlers will bite at some point) and that the phase will pass.

I do exactly the same as Mrs badger and it is definatly getting less and less frequent. It's a horrible thing to go through as a mum especially if they bite other children.

I personally wouldn't get tempted to bite them back despite being advised by members of my family. I want to set an example to dd as I would never intentionally hurt anybody. In my mind it's the same as the parent who shouts to their children 'Don't you **ing shout and swear at me you ****' hmm
Does anyone else want to come and tell me how to parent my childgrin
Whoops, am too slow at typing it seemsblush
I did put him down quite quickly when he did it to me earlier, mainly through shock. It might have been a little drop actually blushHe cried at first when he got put down, but as soon as I said no to him and showed him what he'd done to me, the little monkey just smiles and thinks it's a jokeshock

Do you put your child down and make sit for a while, like time out? I don't know if he's too young still.
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