My DS is 5 and has always been sharp, bright, spoke early, finds most things easy to master and is therefore impatient and gets frustrated when he can't do something.
However on the physical side he was slow to develop, is big for his age, and clumsey, and has not taken to sport particularly well.
DH is keen to encourage him, and we know some of the boys play football at school, but it seems he never joins in. I think they probably don't want to play with him because he's such a bad loser.
For example, I've just witnessed the following situation - we went down to the park with him and DS2 (3) to have a bit if a kick around. First of all DS1 was happy to kick it back and forth, but as soon as DH or I kicked the ball past him or 'tackled' him to get it he just stropped off in a huff saying we 'weren't playing properly'. In the end we just gave up and I ended up getting so angry and worked up about it.
Is this normal?
We've had loads of conversations about he mustn't just give up, and how 'life isn't always fair' and how you have to go after what you want.
But he really IS just a complete prima donna at times.
Honestly, I'm at my wits end about it...
Any ideas?
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DS is such a bad loser..... I'm worried
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Legacy · 16/04/2005 14:40
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