Probably hardly anybody up yet with the time difference but I need to get this off my chest and hope somebody can give me some advice
Situation: We moved to the UK to Australia and dd started new school 2 weeks ago.
I appreciate that this is a big change for her and have been trying to be very understanding and leniant, reassuring etc. but slowly I am getting to the end of my tether with her drama outbreaks when it is time to go into the classroom.
I know it's a bit overwhelming for her as she's moved from a village school with ca. 60 students to a rather large school with 700+ students, but saying that it all seems very organised in the morning and not too frantic.
Basicall she's happy to go to school and run around to play until the whistle goes and it is time to line up to listen to the announcements and then be led by their teacher to their classrooms.
That's cue for sad face, tears and clingy attack, which ususally ends in the teacher having to pry dd off me and lead her in.
I'm sure dd knows that it gets to me and I am so tempted just to walk off as soon as she is in line, instead of staying for the announcements.
Saying that though there could be 2 scenarios... a) she stays in line, feeling miserable whilst I walk away from her feeling like I've just abandoned my child but at least I don't have to see her sad face or b) she'll come running after me crying.
I've tried reassuring her that all will be fine and that I understand that it's a big new experience. I've tried - you have to go to school or mum will get in trouble with the police. And this morning I lost my temper a little and said 'I've got enough of this every morning, you are going in' hand over to teacher say bye and go...
So really my question to the wise mn board:
If I ditch and run will I scar her for life? And when will I stop feeling guilty?
Shall check back later when someobdy is up
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MrsBigD · 16/06/2008 04:57
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