I'm worried about my DD.
I was talking to DP and my sister last night about how unhappy she seems to be most of the time and a few things struck me, Im now worrying!
It is really quite rare for her to be care free and full of fun. She is ALWAYS a step away from a meltdown, when something does trigger a meltdown she gets very, very angry often trying to destroy whatever it is that is around at the time or nipping herself or lashing out at people around her.
She can cry hysterically for a looooooooooong time if she is tantrumming and cant get her way!
In the last week or two she has said lots of things such as "You hate me" "I want a new Mummy" "You dont love me" "Why does no one listen to me" and then last night she actually packed a bag and asked me to ring her a taxi to find a new family!
She has started hitting me too which is a new thing, she has always been cheeky when in a tantrum but now she will hit out or kick me or her brother.
I want to know if this is all typical stuff and that the "you dont love me" stuff is being used by her to guilt me into to letting her do what she wants or if in fact there is some sort of problem.
Every day I think to myself that today will be a good day and try really hard to start the day off with huge cuddle and lots of positivity - Im lucky if I havent been called a "stupid pumpy horrible head" and a big hugg by the time she reaches the bottom of the stairs.
I am blaming myself a lot and putting it down to me having less patience and time for her because of all the other extra demands on my time and energy since christmas.
Sorry this is waffled - if you got this far could you tell me what you think!
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