Which is......her hand washing obsession. It comes and goes, but is back with avengance today.
She has just gone to go to bed and went for a wee. Her trousers got a bit wet whilst on the floor so i said she could change them. She wanted to do it right away, but i said well wash your hands and brush your teeth and i'll go and sort them out. Straight away she started to get anxious and aggitated and said she must put her trousers on before she washed her hands.
I asked her why and she said because if she washed her hands and then had to pull trousers up, she would touch have to touch her bum as the trousers went up and so her hands would have germs on them again.
I explained that they wouldn't and infact if she didn't wash them then she would be putting germs on the trousers.
She said ok but only if i put them on for her.
I feigned a bad back then to get her to do it herself, she did it by holding the trousers with the tips of her fingers and no where near the waistband. As soon as they were up she held her hands up and said 'I need to wash them now they are dirty.
I let her, but then she said as i had helped her my hands were dirty too and that i wasn't allowed to touch her quilt, she started to get in a real tiz again, but i managed to calm her down and she got into bed, but i noticed that she is lying with her hands out and trying not to touch the bed.
Not really sure what any of this means but i have noticed that when her behaviour is particularly bad, she also starts obsessing about germs on her hands.
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Have just realised that dd's bad behaviour coincides with something else
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nutcracker · 20/01/2005 20:10
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