Up until now dd has been a happy, confident, amusing and feisty lettle girl, very different from me when I was a child and I#ve always been really relieved. I'd have hated her to be shy, undreconfident and anxious like I was.
Just recently however she's become mega clingy and has been crying a lot. She also seems more sad and withdrawn and is getting very scared of things like cats etc. Her natural confidence when greeted with a new situation seems to have gone and she clings to me and dh.
Myself and dh have been arguing a lot recently and I'm ashamed to say I've lost my temper with him on a few occasions. When things get heated dd just takes herself off and potters about. I'm so worried with damaged her and made her anxious. Have never shouted or raiesd my vioice directly at her or said anything critical/derisive but she's not the sparky little girl she used to be.
I love her so much and I'd do anything to make her happy. Any comments/advice?
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19m dd personality seems to be changing v worried
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peacelily · 29/04/2008 22:51
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