OK my nightly rigmarole is over - taking over an hour to settle LO. Basically he usually has a short nap around 4.30, then feed, play, bath, then feed then try and put down in cot when he is "ready to sleep" as they say. Eyes are closing, he seems to go over, then stirs and within minutes is wide awake again. I try again, feed him more, rock, shush-pat etc. Eventually he will go, but this can take over an hour. This takes a chunk out of the gap between feeds and also happens at night feeds when he usually wakes on a variation of 11 and 3 with occasional "pointless" stirrings.
So feeding and settling him can take so long I am awake for an hour and a half each time. He is getting a lot more contented in the daytime than when he was a newborn, and these night time happenings don't involve a lot of tears as I can't leave him to cry, he's only 8 weeks old. It's just so tiring I am now starting to dread nights!
I swaddle him but when he stirs he grunts and struggles to get his hands out. However if I experiment with leaving one or both hands free he flaps them about, rubbing his eyes, chewing his hand, hitting himself in the face etc.
Using a dummy seems to make him go wide awake again, and as soon as he loses it he starts to fuss.
This is why I don't tend to put him in his cot for naps in the daytime, as the rigmarole can take so long he's wanting another feed before he even has a sleep!
Talked to others at BF group and am v jealous as most of them seem to feed and then go straight back to sleep, usually within minutes .
He feeds so long as well, I'm hoping this will shorten out too, but he's just such a hungry monkey! and feeds for 20 mins or more on both sides, even at night!
Just wanted to know if anyone had any ideas as I have that nagging feeling I am doing something "wrong!
Also wondered when the need for swaddling will stop - will it be when he gets better control of his movements?
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Settling jack-in-the-box baby - help
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AngeChica · 27/03/2008 20:45
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