Really briefly dd1 is 8yrs old, I'm finding her hard work lately and it's really upsetting me, she is basically behaving like a teenager - wanting to go out with her mates, saying I make her life hard/ miserable, saying I hate her, asking for things she know I won't allow so she can say I don't want her to have a ncie life etc for eg this week she has asked to sleep in a tent in next doors garden. (as if)
She doesn't give me cuddles, she moans I don't give her enough attention then blanks me when I do try and cuddle her/ talk to her. I know she is jelous of the children I mind and doesn't want me to work (unfortunatly for her this is tough)
I'm doing my best and we've planned exciting things for her to do this year so far she is going on holiday with pil to greece, going to see girls aloud for her birthday as well as lots of little things like going to the park/ swimming/ out for a meal/ going to soft play at weekends as a family as well as going on trips when I'm working (farms, big parks etc)
I'm really at my wits end with her attitude towards me, she speaks to me with a horrible tone, whenever I ask her to do something she cheeks me or says no until i say I will punish her if she doesnt stop but I shouldn't have to threaten that for her to do as she is told imo.
I am consistant with punishments so I don't understand why she is behaving like this towards me. She isn't like it as much with her dad but that's probably because she doesn't see him as much as me, when he was finsihing early a few days last week even he told her off for her attitude towards me (and him at times)
She is doing really well at school and I'm proud of her achievements and I praise her a lot when she does things right, we give her pocket money if she does well on her spellings test.
What can I do?
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How can I help my Dd1 to be less spoilt/ more grateful
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LoveMyGirls · 10/03/2008 14:15
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