I have a highly sensitive child who has just started pre-school.
She has only done a couple of sessions so far. On the first session she bounded in and hardly looked back to say bye (which is what I expected as she has been left in a creche before with no problems). However when I collected her she was sobbing. It seems there was a particular situation that happened which upset her (now this situation would not upset another child, but my child is particular sensitive and I had warned them about this situation but I don't think they had read the notes I had made at the introductory session).
Anyway, she said she didn't like the ladies, they didn't like her, and she didn't want to go back. Anyway day 2 comes, she stalls eating breakfast, says she doesn't want to go all the way there, relucantly goes in.
Every day since (when she was not due to go in anyway) she has woken up saying she doesn't want to go and doesn't like it and they made her very sad and talks about it intermittently during the day, she now doesn't want to be left with anyone (like her nan) where she was happy to before. She only does 2 sessions a week.
Bearing in mind she has happily been left at creche before, how many sessions would you keep trying for?
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car25 · 14/01/2008 10:06
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