My 2.2 yo dd has always been quite demanding. As a baby she was not easy - very demanding, needed constant attention, not easy to put down etc. As a result, she has always had a lot of attention from me.
She started to talk at about 15 months and amazed us all in that within a few months you could almost hold a conversation with her. She just seemed to absorb words and her sentence construction at this age is amazing. At about 18 months she was coming out with stuff like 'It's not dark now, sun's out and moon's gone to bed' - i had been describing the difference between night and day and she picked it up really quickly. people often comment on how well she speaks and at nursery they told me that there are a lot of pre-schoolers who can't speak as well as she can.
However, this does have its downside. The terrible 2's kicked in ages ago and stroppiness is part of our normal day - I find it hard to deal with as i think a lot of her bad behaviour is bourne out of her maybe being a little advanced for her age, but still obviously being very immature still in that she can't cope well with the discipline that her bad behaviour makes me dish out.
Today, I asked her to pick up a set of snap cards that she'd strewn all over the lounge only for her to turn round to me and say 'No, you pick them up, not me!' This type of response has been forthcoming a lot lately, but today i got really angry with her as she just wouldn't pick them up so she went into her cot for time out, which made her bawl the house down. Is this normal behaviour for a child who is barely 2?
PS This post sounds a bit 'isn't my lo so clever' - purely just want to know if there are any other little ones at this age doing this type of thing. How do you deal with it? Feel bad for coming down on her like a tonne of bricks for answering me back as she is only 2 - but I can't let her get away with it, can I? If I do, what type of a prescedent am I setting for her?
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Answering back at 2.2 yrs!! Never expected the strops at such an early age!
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mammabelleboo · 01/01/2008 20:30
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