Sorry if this is a repeated cry for help. I looked though the past threads but couldn't see one too similar. My DS is 6 1/2 months old and will not be put down without a full blown screaming fit which does not abate - anytime! He is a good sleeper and I do not need to help him go to sleep; he is fine at eating, breast and solids but unless he is asleep, or eating he has to be held. It is not that he is clingy to me, anyone will do, and it is not something that has happened recently. He has always wanted to be held and as a small baby I coped. He is not my first; DD1 3 1/2, DD2 2, neither of them were babies that amused themselves easily infact DD2 had reflux and basically screamed for the first 6 months of her life, so I carried her in a pouch constantly for the first 3 months but by 6 months there was a huge improvement so I think that's why I coped with DS for so long. I am now fast reaching the end of my tether. It effects how I am with DDs and I can't see the light at the end of the tunnel. How will he learn to sit/crawl and eventually walk if he is always held? My health visitor suggested carrying him in a pouch - all 19lbs of him, all the time, but I just don't feel this is right. Deep down I feel there is something wrong, but also I know I am so worn down by it - have others experienced this. Am I just being silly? Will the health profession take me seriously if I go to them as he is sleeping and eating and doing fine on their charts?? Any advice, however hard it may be to swallow, is welcome
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6 month old will not be put down - please help
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Cruella · 15/11/2004 21:09
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