DD is 6 and always difficult to get dressed and to school, but I usually manage to get her there on time with a mixture of cajoling, shouting, whatever. This morning I got up early to make biscuits for dd's class party at school them went to help her get dressed, breakfast etc. Dd was hiding in my bed, then snuck out and came towards me - I think she must have believed she could sneak past me without me seeing her ! But I did see her so I smiled at her. So she hit me and started an enormous strop for no reason at all. I was just not in the mood for this so told her that's horrible behaviour and left her to get ready on her own. Reminded her twice that she needed to get dressed quickly in order to have time to choose a fairy outfit to take in for class party. Well she didn't get dressed quickly at all, I had to help her in the end, then it was time to leave for school. At which point she realised she hadn't had breakfast and the Big Tears started along with much wailing and gnashing of teeth. I gave her a banana and 2 biscuits (one of which she threw at me) to eat on the way and she cried all the way there and repeatedly told me how much she hates me. At school I realised that dd was the only one in school uniform - I had somehow missed that note home . (that's the second time I've missed a no uniform day, which dp thinks is terrible of me !) I'm taking food in later for the party - shall I take in her fairy outfit too ? Ho hum, feeling very sad and would have preferred to discuss this with dp but he rather unhelpfully implied that I am to blame for everything ! Must try harder.
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If I don't take her fairy outfit in, will she "learn a lesson" ?
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tomps · 17/12/2007 11:46
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