We moved DS (2.5) to a bed a couple of months ago. Initially he was fine about going to bed and in the morning stayed in bed until we went into him. I knew that wouldn't last forever and 2 weeks ago he suddenly twigged that he could get out of bed. We have been doing rapid return every evening since then - initially we would go into his room and make sure he was back in bed but he seemed to think that was a game so now we only go as far as the stairgate that we have put in his doorway, gently put a hand on him to encourage him out of the doorway, then shut the door and leave. He doesn't get upset just pootles round for a bit before his next escape attempt.
I have cut back his daytime nap a little to make sure he is tired in the evening. However 2 weeks on he is still taking 1-1.5hrs to settle in the evening - I am just glad that it isn't summer which must limit the amount of entertainment he can find in his room which is pretty dark. I can't believe how much less sleep he has had in the last fortnight.
DH wedged a piece of wood under his door handle to stop him being able to open it last night which I wasn't particularly comfortable with (although tonight ds did seem slightly less inclined to open his door). I would rather he learns to stay in his room but knows that the door can be opened if he really needs us.
I realise that staying in his bed is unrealistic, I just want him to stay in his room with the door closed.
Any one with experience of this out there who can tell me how much longer this is likely to go on? Any tricks for hurrying it up?
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Ok so how long before this rapid return works??
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MuddlingThru · 08/12/2007 21:12
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