DP has just put DS to bed and this followed a huge battle as he wanted to watch tv first. He's thrown the remote control at me - has run at and punched myself and DP - scratches and bites, screams in your face - blows rasberries in your face, name calls. Much of the time he is a real joy but just seems to switch into this wild child often when you need him to do something he doesn't want to do over something he wants We do give him a warning that his tea will be in 10 minutes/bedtime soon etc.. We've always used the naughty step and use the pasta jar to reward good behaviour but his rages seem to be getting worse and he's throwing whatever comes to hand at the door, runs off upstairs and thinks its a game to be chased - I sometimes think using the naughty step drags out the confrontation. Whatever toys we might take away makes no difference to him when in this mood. The defiance of it all is getting me increasingly angry and I know our responses are not helping at all as we try to regain some control of the situation. He goes to nursery and I've never had one report of him behaving in this way. I know its about us but I just don't know what to try to change the behaviour.
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coping badly with 3.5 year old aggression - please help!
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shelbel · 01/12/2007 20:01
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