hello, i have an 11 week old baby girl. she is my first child and i am bottle feeding. From the day she was born i have handed her to all family and friends for a cuddle to ensure she accepts other people readily as i plan on going back to work part time when she is 6 months old and didnt want my absense to be a huge shock to her.
I visit my mum and dad almost every day and they help me look after her, sometimes feeding her, rocking her etc. she is in a very strong routine of feeding and sleeping so i can predict her behaviour very well.
my husband also does her whole bath/bedtime routine every night.
the problem i have is that she is a completely contented baby, rarely crying and just happy to sit on me, or be in my arms, or asleep i her cot during her nap times - it doesnt sound much of a problem until you take me out of the equation - she will not go to ANYONE. she will cry if i leave the room, cry if i pass her to anyone else - even if i am sat next to them.
she "tolerates" my mum and my husband for short periods, but once she starts crying she cannot be settled by anyone except me, and she will stop crying the minute she is in my arms.
please dont think i havent tried letting her cry - 2 weeks ago i went to the dentist for over an hour leaving her with my mum and dad. she SCREAMED from the minute i left the house until the minute i returned
please can anyone help me? obviously i love our cuddles and the fact that she wants to be with me so much, and know that there will be a day when i look back and wish she still wanted me so much, but surely this behaviour isn't normal? what happens when i go back to work and she is left with grandparents/nursery, how can i break this habit?
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very clingy 11 week old - anything i can do?
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Kerri28 · 21/11/2007 21:17
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