This is probably a stupid question, but dh and I are really running out of ideas on how to handle ds (2yrs.10m).
Basically he has always been easygoing, but since birth of our second child 3m ago, he has started tantrums. These are less frequent since I have been giving him lots of 1;1 time on advice of HV, but the remaining ones are huge. They are usually over him refusing to do something (get in car seat/ bath etc) and we work through the whole management hierachy of distraction, offering bribes, counting to 3, giving him 2 mins time out and finally shutting him in his room for as long as it takes.
Thing is, he NEVER calms down under any of these. Best is when we offer him a compromise, (which works, I think cos he feels he retains some control) eg let him move me off my seat so that he can sit there when tantrum was in cafe. There is a big history of stubborness in my family and boy, he appears not to be able to back down or calm down either, though he has excellent speech and is very good at negotiating, even in a tantrum.
Any comments??
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Tantrums at 2yr 10m; any ideas on managing them?
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beakysmum · 17/11/2007 22:06
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