Help, my son is a monster, he bites, slaps and headbuts. He's headbutted me so hard my glassess broke and I had a black eye. He's bitten me hard enought to leave bruises and draw blood, he's pulled earrings out. Dh doesn't fare any better, we've tried time out, the constant praising, ignoring all sorts. I haven't smacked or bitten back - yet. I don't really want to get violent back, but nothing else seems to work. He started scratching and biting last xmas when he was 12m old, it just seems to have gotten worse as time has gone by adn we're getting more desperate. For the last 4 months we've been timeoutting which was suggested by his pre-school. It doesn't make a difference, except that the doorframe has bite marks and bits of wallpaper have been pulled off. Tonight he has split my lip, left a deep scratch down my face and my arms have loads of bruises and bite marks. My glasses are also bent from where he hit me with his toy car. If this were my dh doing this, I'd leave. I hate this, I've failed somewhere and I can't put it right. I hate being a mum and have started to think about leaving. Right now, I can't think of a single reason to stay and that scares me. Anyone, any suggestions?
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