We never have any real problems with our son's behaviour - 3.5 yrs - except when he gets really excited at playgroup or when friends come to visit. In the latter case it is easily enough dealt with and he calms down after 10-15 mins and plays well with both younger and older children. However, at playgroup from the word go he is like a tornado and although he calms down a bit to do craft activities, play with the others he often upsets others work/play. Their snack time is a little late for him and I ask the staff to at least make sure he gets a drink and something to eat about half an hour before the snack time.Then once they start on more physical activity he gets really hot and tired and starts pushing and generally misbehaving.
I suspect he gets bored early on, but then is unable to moderate his behaviour when he exhausts himself, I don't think the staff cope with this all that well. I have asked them to take him aside for a minute or two to let him recover himself, but this never seems so successful with the staff as it is at home.
By the time they finish play he will not sit still for a story or nursery rhymes (probably because he is too tired). I now go back for him early and sometimes remove him at story time - for the safety of the other children -he hates going early!
I keep hoping that he will grow out of this, but there's no sign yet. He goes to 3 sessions a week (they are 2.5 hours) and we have started going for only the 2nd part of the session on two of the days.
I feel it is important for him to keep going as this is the main opportunity for social interaction with children of his own age. Where we live there are no other young kids.
Any ideas about how to cope with this. I am the one who generally ends up frazzled.
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Behaviour at playgroup
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Pipspoodle · 26/10/2004 14:29
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