Some feedback and support would be so appreciated!!! I have a clingy 2yr old dd who is not very good at mixing with other kids and being left. All she seems to want is me - when we go to playgroup she dosn't go off and play with the other kids, just wants to stay with me. So I decided to put her into nursery for half a day a week to get her used to being without me and mixing with other kids. She has had 2 1 hr settling sessions - the first time I left her was horrendous but she did settle and seemed happy when I picked her up, not so happy the second time - crying when I collected her but they said she had been OK up til they went outside for playtime. Went to playgroup this morning as usual and she was really tearful, crying saying she wanted to go home etc. Managed to calm her down and we stayed for the rest of the session but she wouldn't let me out of her sight - I couldn't even go to the loo! I realise this must be nursery that's unsettling her and making her upset when I leave her and it's making her want to be with me even more. Am I doing the right thing in leaving her at nursery - feel so awful that I'm putting her through something that is clearly upsetting her a lot, but am only trying to get her used to being left before she goes to pre-school. Feel so sad . Sorry, bit of an essay!!
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Clingy, nursery nightmare!! How can I get through this!!
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mammabelleboo · 02/10/2007 12:27
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