Ok, I know this is a normal development phase but its just getting me down so much. My 19mo ds will hit and pull hair but only on me! I hate having to tell him off and say no all the time but if I ignore him he just does it more.
Sometimes he laughs but more often now when I say 'no, you've hurt mummy or made mummy sad' then he starts to cry so I'm sure he knows he's doing wrong but why won't he stop?!
What gets me down the most though is it's just on me, he's very gentle with dh and with other children, we've shown him how to stroke instead of hit so I just don't understand why he still does it on me. Its really making me upset and today after he did it whilst I was putting him down for his nap I just had to cry .
Sorry that's so long but any advice or just the 'its a phase' mantra would be very helpful!
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19mo hitting and pulling hair - will it ever stop?!
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rosmerta · 03/09/2007 12:41
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