I feel absolutely dreadful as I've just screamed blue murder at DS aged 3 1/2 because he won't stay in his bed or let me go downstairs if I have dared try to get off his bed before he's fully asleep. Admittedly I'm in my pre-menstrual week but I'm just so sick and tired of never having any time in the evenings to myself that it's really winding me up. My last resort is the "shut the door" routine and it doesn't get opened until he stops crying and yelling and gets back into bed. Normally this has passed off after several attempts but eventual success and doesn't get used very often, mainly because I lay there until he IS asleep. Sometimes though I don't get downstairs until nearly 9pm. Tonight though, I went to get out of bed and he sat up to protest and I just blew my top at him. I was like a woman possessed.I went from cuddly calm mum to mad woman split personality and it must have been horrible for him. Last night I'd ended up falling asleep on his bed myself and didn't wake up till midnight. I just never get anything done and tonight I had so many important things to do. I'm ashamed to say I launched straight into the shut the door routine and he ended up throwing his bottle of milk at the door, pulling his books off his bookcase and screaming in that throaty scream, "you stupid idiot", over and over. He's unfortunately learnt this unpleasant phrase because he heard me say it about other road users, not because I've EVER called him one. After 10 - 15 minutes of this, I heard him get back into bed and he went straight to sleep. I'm mortified.He's not like this usually and now I'm crying. I know I shouldn't lose my temper like this. Does anyone else find themselves in the same position and how can I get this sorted. Please help.
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sallystrawberry ·
01/10/2004 00:53
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