what do mners think I should do? DD2 (4) has been playing up a bit at bedtime. Last night this reached pretty monumental proportions with an hour of hystrionics. Eventually I said: if there is any more fuss, you won't be able to go to ballet on Thursday. There was more fuss so no ballet was duly decreed. This was always going to be a difficult threat to carry out as dd2 goes too so I was either going to have to not take either of them (dd2 probably wouldn't have sussed, but then it wouldn't seem like a punishment for dd1) or only take one of them which would be very harsh. So I offered DD1 a chance of reprieve. Tonight I said that she will not be going to ballet on Thursday BUT, if she was good tonight and tomorrow with no fuss at all then I would let her go. Unfortunately she made a fuss. However, dh and I have had a feeling that there is something at the bottom of this and I think tonight it came out, with dd1 crying hysterically "I want my daddy". DH has recently started coming home later and generally dd sees less of him. SO - what now? We will try to address the broader issue and dh will try to jiggle things around a bit to see more of her, but in the short-term - ballet or not? One possible solution is that Granny will be here so, perhaps she could take dd2 to ballet and I could take DD1 to a cafe for a cake - so I'm being true to my word, but not actually giving her much of a "punishment". What do you think. Sorry this is so long!
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Talk to others about child development and behaviour stages here. You can find more information on our development calendar.
Behaviour/development
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.