Can you help? My four year old wakes every morning around 7.30/8am (I know, I'm very lucky) and comes straight into our room (stomp stomp stomp), usually launching straight into the middle of a conversation we were having the previous night. She generally jumps into bed for a cuddle, and then we have a quick chat about the day and get up to make tea. I think this is a very nice way to start the day, although admit to not really liking being woken up - but as I'm not a morning person and never have been, I don't like being woken up by anything!! My partner (not her father), finds this really annoying and has got it into his head that she shouldn't be waking us up at all and wants to change this routine (we're expecting another baby and he wants it sorting before the next one comes).
One suggestion he had was to close the door on her and tell her she's not allowed in our room at all. He says when he was little he was never allowed in his parents room - I have suggested this memory may be from when he was 7 or 8 rather than four!! I personally think closing the door on her would be really mean, and frankly rather inpractical as you can't really leave a 4yr old roaming around the place unattended!!
I've tried to explain that children do just get up in the mornings, and whether they just holler for their parents, or come and find them, do just generally need attending to and as neither of us are morning people, we're probably always going to find this hard. Of course I'm horribly hormonal at the moment and slightly worried anyway about him not loving my daughter as much as his own child, so am being horribly defensive every time we discuss it and crying alot; but really need to find a solution or a good arguement to shut him up!! Any ideas?
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HELP! having stupid argument with partner about mornings with 4 yr old
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conkeyhead · 02/08/2007 13:17
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