I'm seeking advice for a mate in desperation with a clingy 14-month-old son. He insists on being attached to his mother at all times ? literally joined at the hip ? and goes into astonishing hysterics if removed. They last until he is reattached. He used to accept taking a break for sleep, but now won't sleep unless he can lie on his mother. He pushes away his father and sister if they try and approach either of them.
The daily noise level is so high that, when he had gastro-enteritis, no one could tell he was ill until he went blue (dehydration led to heart failure.) This terrified his mother. He started to crawl, walk and talk a few months ago, but no longer speaks and now only moves to crawl to his mother (if she tries to put him down). He doesn't play with toys or show interest in anything other than his mother, although he will make eye contact with others,understands what people are saying, and can be left with a childminder.
What can the family do? Right now all mummy does is keep him close. All suggestions gratefully received. Thanks so much.
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georgecat · 18/07/2007 12:17
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