Hi, this is my first posting so I am new to this! I just wondered if anyone had any opinions on something that has been bothering me for a while. My ds is now 15 months and Ive worried for a while about his development, I feel like hes behind but dont know if its my paranoia, his personality or maybe something to worry about.
It all started when at around 5 or 6 months he started to clench and unclench his fists alternately all the time (for a lot of the time when he was awake) and people started to ask me why. It really started to worry me so I went to see a pediatrician who said he thought it was nothing to worry about, that it was something that pleased him.
Since then Ive seen lots of other babies the same age develop and I have always felt like he is behind in picking things up. He does the thing with his hands still, though less, but usually when he is exciting or not occupied.
He is not talking yet but babbles and seems to understand some words and will on occasion sort of point and grunt at something he wants. However, he does not seem to try to copy or make sounds of words, like ca for car etc.
He plays with toys but it seems to me it is usually just to shake them, eat or man-handle them. He will knock down a stack and push walkers around - but for example he wouldnt push a car along, hold a play phone to his ear, press buttons or try to use shape sorters.
Is this normal for a 15 month old? Am I just being paranoid that something is not right? I always look at his little friends who are playing with shape sorters, trying to do puzzles and pressing buttons on toys, etc... I know I should try not to compare too much but its difficult when you see other children so much.
Sorry for the long ramble! would appreciate your opinions.
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15 month old - am I being paranoid about development?
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whizzymummy · 23/06/2007 13:31
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