I am really cross. I went shopping with my daughter (6) and bought a present for her 3 year old sister and at the time talked to her about it being a secret and she musn't tell etc (which she promised).
Then tonight, my three year old told me exactly what she is getting for her birthday (what we bought today) and that her sister told her. When I challenged her she first said she had guessed but almost straight away admitted she had told her but didn't know why.
I was so upset with her and told her she will be punished for it and how its ruined the surprise for the day, imagine how she will feel, how would you feel etc. I dont' think she did it out of malice but I feel as though I need to take some action.
Thing is, I am a bit crap at punishments as it is - often struggle to think of something meaningful and appropriate for the naughty act. Couldn't think of anything tonight but said I will think about it and talk to her again in the morning.
Any ideas or should I just leave it at the lecture?
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Punish my 6 year old for this or am I over reacting?
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chocolatekimmy · 22/06/2007 22:42
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