my 10 year old ds is becoming more and more violent towards his sister who is 7, my dd in the past week has been shook so violently she has screamed with terror, she has been pushed into a stairgate and hit her neck, she has been punched 3 times in the middle of her back, she has also been pinched- leaving a mark. these are only the serious things there are many other times when ds threatens to hit or just gets in her face. now she is not perfect and often teases him, which i try my best to stop. He also swears at her and me when he's angry and threatens to kill her or kill himself!
i tried to get him councilling but pulled out at the last minute because the dr demanded to contact his dad and if that happens his father would use anything to try and get residence and also would definatly lie to the drs and then we would end up riddled with ss and mental drs and a court battle for years when all i want is to help my son deal with his anger. what can i do? where have i gone wrong?
please someone help
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violent 10 year old - HELP!!
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slinkstar · 11/06/2007 23:14
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