I haven't used MN in a long while, but would really appreciate any advice.
DS1 has always been a high spirited boy. However, since starting YR1, he has been having difficulties controlling his behaviour. He is sent to other classes for inappropriate behaviour (silly noises, laughing, not listening to teacher), has missed playtime etc. We have been into discuss with teacher but not much has changed.
He is the same at home and at whatever activities he attends. I have taken him to a number of them and after a few weeks, the instructors have advised us to 'leave him until he is a bit older'. It would seem that he plays up in situations where he finds himself under pressure to perform/conform.
The rational part of me says they are right, maybe he is young for his age. His peers at school do similar activities and seem to cope very well. However, the not so rational part feels it is my fault,as I don't seem to have much time to spend one on one with him (have a 2 yr old Ds and 8 week old DS). As a result, he plays up to get attention, even if it is negative.
Does anyone have any ideas as to what DH and I can do to improve the situation? Or even confirm that this is normal 5/6 yr old behaviour?
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Feeling guilt over DS1, aged 5.5
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Poshpaws · 22/05/2007 11:47
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