My DS1 (4) has recently insisted that we call him 'Tommy' (after CBeebies' animated environmental campaigner, Tommy Zoom. Yes, he probably does watch too much telly.) I went along with it for a while (a couple of months), but recently I've found myself becoming a bit annoyed with it and telling him rather sharply that I want to use his 'real' name. I'm not sure why it irritates me so much. I suspect that I should just chill out about it, but I'm worried that we will find ourselves down the registry office changing his name if this carries on much longer. Also, he starts school in September and I'm not sure whether this sort of identity muddle will be in his favour then.
Any thoughts?
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Do your kids have alter egos? Do you let them?
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rowan1971 · 12/05/2007 20:51
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