that's it really. DD1 has never gone to bed easily, we've always had trouble putting her down as a baby and it continues to this day. I think in her almost 5 years with us we've probably had less than 10, probably fewer than 5 in fact, evenings where she has just gone to bed happily and slept.
I can hear her now, in her bedroom, ranting and raving, screaming so much she has made her throat sore, and reciting "I am stupid, nobody loves me" in between times, presumably because she knows that it upsets us to hear her say that, as we have devoted much attention to telling her that of course she is not stupid and that of course we do love her.
This is so wearing. By the time she has quietened down at night DH and I are so emotionally knackered it's ridiculous
DD2 on the other hand goes to bed like a dream and always has done...
anyone else got one of these? anyone want a swap?
(btw we have tried sticker charts, we always have stories and wind down time, she has a lamp on in her room as she says she can't sleep in the dark, we allow story tapes at weekends - if we allow them during week she is up until all hours as she sometimes manages to stay awake till the end and then rants when it is over so it just prolongs the agony. Our current strategy is that she can have a fruit bar in her school lunchbox next day if she goes to bed without a fuss, but tonights little episode shows me that novelty has worn off too)
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almost 5 yo ranting and raving every bedtime - can't bear it anymore
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jeangenie · 03/05/2007 20:42
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