This is doing my head in. DS1 has just turned three but he WILL NOT walk nicely to follow me when we're out. I always have DS2 in buggy so I can't just chase him and can't always hold hands securely (he really resists handholding with me, fine with anyone else).
I'm afraid I usually resort to strapping him in buggy (It's a phil& ted's so I can double it up if I want) or reins but starting to feel he's too old for this. I just cannot trust him in busy public places not to run off and get lost - he thinks it's really funny to run away. I end up continuously calling him back and making a scene of it.
Also he does get tired walking and often asks to be carried or go in pushchair. So it's not really a punishment/consequence to strap him in.
I guess it's a bit of a power struggle thing but I can't figure out how to "train" him to stay close, and I've tried! I'm a bit worried that without practice he won't learn, so we'll never improve.
I have a long journey to manage next week and could do without taking the double buggy - any ideas for a boot camp?
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36mth old runner-off, too old for reins or buggy? Help please
viticella · 24/04/2007 21:03
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