Is it a phase?
DS is becoming increasingly forgetful ... or maybe it seems so because I am beginning to make him take a bit more responsibility that I am noticing how forgetful he is.
He stayed with friends last week for 2 nights and they said he was a "... joy to have, a treasure! But isn't he forgetful?" Cue stories of forgotten lunch money, forgotten library books, soccer bag left behind etc.
Today he carried his school bag and swimming bag into school. He hung them up on pegs next to eachother (I saw him do this)
This afternoon he came out of school and burst into tears saying I forgot to remind him to take his swimming bag into school and he had to sit and watch the other children swim. We went into school and his swimming bag was right there, where he hung it up this morning! What's that all about?
(he wasn't trying to get out of swimming - he loves it, his favourite part of the day)
In the words of my mother, "He would lose his head if it wasn't fixed on ..."
Is this normal development? Do i continue to get him to learn the consequences of his forgetfulness (ie missing swimming) or do I take a bit more control back so that he doesn't end up forgetting stuff because I have remembered .... but if I did that, when would it end???
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7 year old boys. Are they normally forgetful?
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ghosty · 12/03/2007 05:54
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