why is this always such a flipping trauma? it's not about ability but motivation. she is totally capable of doing most of it on her own, and when i was a bawling mess yesterday (unrelated) she proved to me that she can actually do the whole lot including tights when she wants to.
so whyyyyyyyy is it always a flash point for us? she just doesn't want to do it and no matter how creative i try to be it's almost impossible to motivate her. before xmas we resorted to star charts (not my preferred method but it was getting dire) which helped to a degree but she's still reluctant and it's about 1 day in 3 i don't end up resorting to growling or shouting or threats to get her dressed (and this applies equally when we're off to do something exciting not just tescos or school).
is this standard? why? any tips? it's driving me round the bend.
ps i'm happy to help (if she asks nicely and doesn't scream) with the bits she finds tricky, i don't expect her to do it all on her own every time.
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getting a 3/4 year old dressed
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puppydavies · 06/03/2007 10:13
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