So I have two girls, one is nearly 5 and in reception, the other is 5 months. Both are developing normally, ahead in some ways behind in others and up and down behaviourwise.
We have no living grandparents, my brother and cousins are either not people we see very often or have small kids of similar ages, and most of my friends are through school or nursery and also have kids of the same ages.
So, other than DH, who is interested and proud the first time of telling but then moves on, when one of my girls does something I'm proud of I feel like anybody I'm sufficiently close to to care is going to think I'm bragging and comparing to their own children - I'm not, I really am just excited and proud of mine.
I have loads of support for if things are going badly but wish I had some other people who I could share all the great stuff with. TBH I just really miss my mum for sharing stuff like this.
It's the small things really like when littlest sat up unsupported for the first time, or when biggest stopped at the window of the butchers shop because she wanted to sound out all the letters on the window sign.
So I suppose what I'm saying is they are my precious first and second born but nobody cares - and that makes me sad.
Am I the only one
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FlyingCat · 21/11/2016 14:12
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